I want to talk about women

 

You've heard a lot about the Cinderella complex. Modern women are highly critical of Cinderella's story. It is usually called the Cinderella Syndrome, which is to expect a man to take care of herself instead of improving her lot and trying to escape from a difficult, and painful reality to a man's bosom. So a woman with a Cinderella complex always waits for a white horse. He must be a man of great perfection and a man of courage. Then the weapon this Cinderella entrusts to the man is the goodness of resisting her miserable life, and, most importantly, her appearance. Her misery and her appearance is also important for the prince but not important that she is a woman equal to man, her inner world, her ability..

However, this marriage is not easy to occur in capitalist society, it often leads to unhappiness. If the weapon of a woman was only good-looking or appearance, the role of the woman is more likely to remain in the subordinate role of men and the male's ancillary role and she is easy to be treated as possessions of men. At first, men is attracted by her appearance. But men will not respect a woman who depends on himself at any moment, and the love will not last forever. The woman also wants to return to herself without feeling any more love to the man who treats herself as a possession, and the time comes to speak of independence.

The appearance of a woman, goodness has long been a women's weapon not so important as to keep her all forever. Everyone gets older and their life deepens. Then neither the woman nor the man should be transformed into humanity as an equal human being, not a burning love for a moment.

However, a woman who has not been able to wake up quickly from Cinderella syndrome, and who has not escaped her dependence, may have learned a man 's nature and may have been disappointed of him and become his enemy. However, when women realize the nature of men and realize their self-awareness through recognition of reality and live independently in progress, women are now able to share their humanity with men as a companion of life as well as feelings of love with men.

To do so, the woman should not shrink herself. It is an idle thought to expect a white horse prince with rewards to endure her suffering and her misery. Believing only in appearance is also an idle thought. These women tend to fall into self-pity or dependence. The reality is severe to these women. Women themselves should not shrink into the world of men. It will be a woman who is more respected and loved by men when they are so determined from the beginning as such. It is also important not to become obsessed with the words 'loved' but becomes a wider woman who gives love. Then the world of this woman will be wide.