The concept of sacrifice

Most people are annoyed, depressed and angry because they think 'because I am sacrificed' or 'I am damaging'.

Because we think of sacrifice as a sacrifice, we are annoyed with life. I am annoyed because I think I am sacrificing, for my company, for my friend, for my family.

However, there must be a transition of ideas. we have to create the meaning and value in it. In other words, sacrifice is not sacrifice, but it is my growth and an investment for my future.

We do not have to be depressed if I think I work a little more for the company, for my growth, and for my future. Sacrifice is not a sacrifice because I feel the value of love and the emotion of joy above all when I sacrifice for my family and friend. If I am taking care of my dementia mother, I should not think of it as a sacrifice. There is something noble that can not be said. The author of the bestselling book <Slow Dancing with a stranger> in 2016 showed her appreciation to her husband who has Alzheimer's dementia since she had cared for her husband for 20 years. Because of her husband, she realized the importance of love, trust and family in her life. Then she became a bestselling author through this writings.